It’s all about, FORGIVENESS…even if…

Throughout the Bible Jesus is constantly foretelling his betrayal. It holds true later in the passage in which He tells Peter he will deny knowledge of Him 3 times. He always knows when he will be betrayed, denied, turned against, just as he knew where Peter and John would need to go to prepare Passover, and how they would find this place. Even with this awareness and warnings He gives, the warned continue to become the culprits and Jesus continues to forgive and love, giving second chances and more.

Disloyalty in itself can be enough to write a person off and move on with no second thought or second chance to be had. Considering the how’s and especially the why’s hasn’t always been a first or easy reaction. Saying, “that is very human of you,” forgiving as He did so many times, is seemingly impossible when we are hurting. But to truly love someone means forgiveness and working through the pain as Jesus did his whole life.

How often is the hand that feeds us the one that turns around to bite us, as Peter prepared Passover and then proceeded to deny ever knowing Jesus three times?

I have even been the one to bite those I loved, when I never thought or intended that to happen. The devil creeps in when we are least prepared.

How we learn to deal with our mistakes, take responsibility for, and learn from them counts as much as our capacity to forgive when we are on the other end. To have been on the receiving end of second chances from loved ones and consequently turning back to Jesus, trying to live my life more like the one He lived, I have been softened and humbled with newfound ability to step back and consider the reasons and situational factors that cause others to that hurt me, and to forgive. Never forgetting…but always forgiving. It’s never easy but being conscious to the art of forgiveness helps us say “how very human of you, now let’s look at where we went wrong and how we can avoid that in the future.” That’s the raw love Jesus showed throughout his life, knowing people were going to betray him, mistreat him, and he would forgive and give them the chance to say “I made a mistake, learned from it, and will walk with you again living my lesson.”